Woman..

[Does_anyone]

So recently this beautiful young girl came into my life about a few weeks back, and well, I dont know why, but we just connect.
But the problem is, she doesn't want a relationship, she's blatantly said that she doesn't like dating. This doesn't really sound like a rejection as she does seem quite interested. But she doesn't want to give me a chance either.

So yeah, what do I do? And I'm not looking for answers like, "Move on", I want to try this, I just know it'll work. It just seems she wants to see an effort maybe? What do I do? How do I go about showing her this?

[HEX1GON]

So recently this beautiful young girl came into my life about a few weeks back, and well, I dont know why, but we just connect.
But the problem is, she doesn't want a relationship, she's blatantly said that she doesn't like dating. This doesn't really sound like a rejection as she does seem quite interested. But she doesn't want to give me a chance either.

So yeah, what do I do? And I'm not looking for answers like, "Move on", I want to try this, I just know it'll work. It just seems she wants to see an effort maybe? What do I do? How do I go about showing her this?

I had a woman in my life that did the same. Showed all interest, would hug me, spend so many days and nights together. I asked her about a relationship because no usual female "friend" would do that sort of stuff...Well for me at least =_=

She simply told me, "Why can't we just be friends? We're good friends. Why do you want a relationship?" and all that bullshit...

I even said let's try it. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work no problems there at least we attempted. After months and months of hanging out and stuff she started seeing me less and less. :crying:

I was depressed for months and effected my study.

In my conclusion for situations like this, just keep her as a close friend even though you're interested ><" I wish I did exactly that, cause now we're not even friends any more... Give it time and MAYBE she might come forward... but it's hard to judge :banghead:

Best of luck though bud.

[Bad_Ad84]

Sort of agree with the above. You cant force these things, what will happen will happen naturally.

[APE]

It'll happen naturally, or she is just looking for all the benefits with none of her perceived "downsides".

[ASSEMbler]

she doesn't want a relationship, she's blatantly said that she doesn't like dating.

You're not handsome and rich enough.

Women say one thing, mean another.

[Christer-swe]

ASSEMbler knows the way of things. That's how it is, women will never permanently settle for anything less than exactly what they want. If they come across something better, they'll immediately jump the ship.

[ASSEMbler]

It doesn't mean you can't have fun or enjoy the time with her. Just enjoy it for what it is (if there is sex). No sex? Don't waste your time in finding the right woman for you.

[ma777]

Ask yourself why you wouldn't want a relationship. If she just got out of something long term then i doubt shes ready to jump back in. Fuck, Me and my gf are kinda rocky right now. well at least I feel that way. She did some shit i told her not to, then i had to fix her mistake. Probably gunna get my ass beat because of it. If we break up because of this there is no way I'm even thinking of a relationship for the next year.

Don't be drooling all over her every time you see her. Play that don't care stuff. Blow her off sometimes. Make her want you.

Coming from an 18 year old^

Keep your money, freedom, and save yourself the bullshit.

[GodofHardcore]

I have a poem for this thread

by the great poet Dr Dre

Snoop] Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks...

[Chorus (Snoop (2X):]
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
Lick on these nuts and suck the dick
Get the fuck out after you're done
And I hope in my ride to make a quick run...

[Dr. Dre]
I used to know a bitch named Eric Wright
We used to roll around and fuck the hoes at night
Tight than a motherfucker with the gangsta beats
And we was ballin' on the motherfucking Compton streets
Peep, the shit got deep and it was on
Number one song after number one song
Long as my motherfucking pockets was fat
I didn't give a fuck where the bitch was at
But she was hangin' with a white bitch doin' the shit she do
Suckin' on his dick just to get a buck or two
And the few ends she got didn't mean nothin'
Now she's suing 'cause the shit she be doin' ain't shit
Bitch can't hang with the streets, she found herself short
So now she's takin' me to court
It's real conversation for your ass
So recognize and pass to Daz

[Dat Nigga Daz]
Now as I'm rollin' with my nigga Dre and Eastwood
Fuckin' hoes, clockin' dough up to no good
We flip flop and serve hoes like flap jacks
([Snoop:] But we don't love them hoes) Bitch, and it's like that
This is what you look for in a ho who got cash flow
You run up in them hoes and grab the cash
And get your dash on
While you're chillin', with your homies and shit
And how my niggaz kick the anthem like this

[Snoop] Bitch!!

[Chorus]

[Kurupt]
...To the store, to get me a 4-0
Snoop Doggy Dogg paged, that must mean more hoes
So I head down the street to long beach
Just so I could meet, a freak
To lick me from my head to my feet
And I'm here, now I'm ready to be done up
Nothin' but homies around so I put my gun up
Bitches on my nuts like clothes
But I'm from the pound and we don't love them hoes
How could you trust a hoe? [Snoop:] Why? [echoed 3X]
'cause a hoe's a trick
We don't love them tricks [Snoop:] Why? [echoed 3X]
'cause a trick's a bitch
And my dick's constantly in her mouth
And turnin' them trick ass hoes the fuck out
Now...

[Snoop Doggy Dogg]
I once had a bitch named Mandy May
Used to be up in them guts like everyday
The pussy was the bomb, had a nigga on sprung
I was in love like a motherfucker lickin' the pearl tongue
The homies used to tell me that she wasn't no good
But I'm the maniac in black, Mr. Snoop Eastwood
So I figure niggaz wouldn't trip with mine
Guess what? Got gaffled by one time
I'm back to the motherfucking' county jail
6 months on my chest, now it's time to bail
I get released on a hot sunny day
My nigga D.O.C. and my homey Dr Dre
Scooped in a coupe, Snoop we got news
Your girl was trickin' while you was draped in your county blues
I ain't been out a second
And already gotta do some motherfucking chin checking
Move up the block as we groove down the block
See my girl's house, Dre, pass the glock
Kick in the door, I look on the floor
It's my little cousin Daz and he's fuckin' my hoe, yo
(Bitches ain't shit)
I uncocked my shit... I'm heart-broken but I'm still locked
Man, fuck a bitch!

[Chorus]

[Jewell]
[Dr. Dre in background "Bitches ain't shit"]
I don't give a fuck about a bitch
But I and her know that they can't fade this
'cause I'm doin my own thingdown with the swang
I'm hangin' with Death Row like it ain't no thing
I say you know can't deal
'cause I'm a bitch that's real
Motherfucker need to step back, hell yeah
They need to chill
Because I don't give a fuck
And I don't give a fuck [x3]

And now I gotta do some...
And now I gotta do some shit that's clean
But when I'm on a dick, hell yeah, I get real mean
Like a washing machine
I can wash the clothes
All the hoes knows
That I'm on the floor ho
But they can't hang with my type on swang
I ain't tryin' to say I suck every ding-a-lang
But just the juicy ones
With he tip of the tongue
And then their sprung
With the nuts hung
[Dr. Dre:] Bitches ain't shit

[HEX1GON]

It doesn't mean you can't have fun or enjoy the time with her. Just enjoy it for what it is (if there is sex). No sex? Don't waste your time in finding the right woman for you.

Really good adviced Kevin! DaE, well worth taking that aboard :thumbsup:

Has any one got any women on their Facebook that complain about relationship problems but still date the same person over and over again?:shrug:

[Does_anyone]

I'll definitely be taking all of this advice onboard :)

Has any one got any women on their Facebook that complain about relationship problems but still date the same person over and over again?

Sounds like my best woman friend of all time :P
She cant see them together in the future, she's broken up with him constant times..
But she still loves him.. >_>

[bobzee]

Without knowing much about her, it's difficult to know her intentions.

She may just enjoy being single and having fun, or she could be hoping to play you like a muppet. Avoid buying her anything until you get to know her better. Players always want to take as much as possible while giving away as little as possible.

If you feel like you're falling in love, then you're going to open yourself up to a world of pain. You can't make someone love you back.

[Pikkon]

I've been in a similar situation were the chick would say I don't want to date,which by the way is bullshit,meaning she doesn't want to date you.
For me I ending up banging this chick but she is batshit crazy so I have my good reasons on why it never worked.

My best advice is just play it by ear but don't get to wrapped up into her.

[HEX1GON]

I'll definitely be taking all of this advice onboard :)


Sounds like my best woman friend of all time :P
She cant see them together in the future, she's broken up with him constant times..
But she still loves him.. >_>

That sucks, I've surely deleted well over 10 women from my Facebook friends cause of their stupid statuses about this one person they keep breaking up with... Now where did I put my shotgun? :-P

[ave]

I don't have such friends, I left them all 8000km away where they belong (in Europe). When I got here, I made sure not to befriend this attentionwhore trash lol.

[ASSEMbler]

Sounds like my best woman friend of all time :P
She cant see them together in the future, she's broken up with him constant times..
But she still loves him.. >_>

She hasn't gotten old enough to realize he's as good as she will get.

Once she hits oh, 35 she'll go for him. The urge for children is too strong by then.

[Padoca85]

Has any one got any women on their Facebook that complain about relationship problems but still date the same person over and over again?:shrug:

LOL every one does that XD

About some months ago there was one I was interested in, she just complian about her skaterboy boyfriend, who lives in another state o.O

So I try aproching her, and she looks interested.
But some time later I realised she was trying to use me to make her bf jealous, so I just walk away. Now she dont have a bf anymore and complain all the time on facebook off being alone XP

I simply dont waste my time with girls like this anymore, if a girl does something like that, I just walkaway and dont talk to her anymore, saves me a lot of trouble and time.

Now for you trouble DaE. Try to give her a cold shoulder for some time too see her reaction, if she dont try to keep in touch with you, them shes not really interested.

Just dont try to be kind to her with gifts at this time or its all over.

Thats my suggestions based on my own experience.

[kiff]

I think it's too late for the cold shoulder approach. If you have already broached the subject of having a relationship then she knows your intentions already and she will always have that in the back of her mind.

My advise would be to just do what feels right at the time BUT don't let her play you for a fool. If something is going to happen then it just will!

[HEX1GON]

LOL every one does that XD

About some months ago there was one I was interested in, she just complian about her skaterboy boyfriend, who lives in another state o.O

So I try aproching her, and she looks interested.
But some time later I realised she was trying to use me to make her bf jealous, so I just walk away. Now she dont have a bf anymore and complain all the time on facebook off being alone XP

I simply dont waste my time with girls like this anymore, if a girl does something like that, I just walkaway and dont talk to her anymore, saves me a lot of trouble and time.

At the time I haven't really had a female friend since High School, so I was in a trance with this girl when I met her... Hell even when I was friends with her, she'd say she would want her ex back.. (after he bashed her, mind you!) She wasn't worth it at all :nod:

What your doing is a very strong approach and I should learn to do the same :)


Always keep in mind as well. There are plenty of other women around. I know it's a little difficult to do that especially if you're really attracted to her. Just keep telling yourself there are other girls.

Now when I think about it, every girl I've seen before would of been pointless... They do all the above -_-.

[tails92]

Three words: Do Not Bother